GaydarTM
Privacy & Security

Your safety, by design.

Most dating apps bolt on safety features after something goes wrong. We built Gaydar around them from day one. Every feature on this page ships free on every account.

Anti-trilaterationVerified selfiesEncrypted messagingUnlimited blocking
Location Privacy

No one can pinpoint where you are.

Location GridProtected
Your cell (all they see)Attacker positions

No matter where someone checks from, they only see the same general area. Your actual location stays hidden.

Other dating apps have been caught leaking users' exact locations. Someone nearby could figure out precisely where you are by checking your distance from a few different spots. We built Gaydar so that can never happen.

We round your location to a general area instead of using your exact spot. Other people only see an approximate distance, not where you actually are. No matter how many times someone checks, they only ever see the same general area. Your precise location never leaves our servers.

Approximate distance onlyAdjusts by regionFree on every account
Verified Identity

Know who you're talking to.

IdentityVerified
Phone number
Verified
Live selfie
Verified
Face validation
Passed
Trust score: Fully verified

Every account starts with phone verification. No burner emails, no anonymous signups. Beyond that, anyone can take a verified selfie inside the app to prove they're the person in their photos.

Verified selfies are captured live and run through a face validation check to confirm you're a real person. They're visible to everyone on your profile and expire after one year so they stay current.

Phone-verified signupsLive selfie verification365-day expiry
Safety Tools

Real protection, not a paywall.

Location Shield, blocking, reporting, photo moderation, and app lock ship on every account. No caps, no cooldowns, no upgrade prompts. These are baseline safety, not premium features.

Your Data

Your data is yours.

Privacy RightsActive
Access my data
See everything we store
Export my data
Download a full copy
Delete my account
Permanent after 30 days
Do Not Sell
Opt out of any data sharing
All rights available directly in the app

We collect what we need to run the app and nothing more. We do not sell your data. We do not share it with advertisers. Full GDPR and CCPA compliance is built in.

Do Not Sell or Share, Limit Sensitive Personal Information, data export, and full account deletion are all available from the app. No forms to fill out, no emails to send.

No data salesGDPR + CCPAFull data export
Pro Privacy+

Granular control. Never for safety.

Baseline location privacy is free for everyone, always. We charge for fine-grained control, not for safety.

Force max privacy

Override your region and use maximum fuzzing everywhere, regardless of country or density.

Per-viewer rules

Matches see your exact distance. Everyone else sees a fuzzed position. Best of both worlds.

Visibility control

Choose who sees your distance: everyone, matches only, or nobody. Your call.

Transparency

Trust comes from showing your work.

Who can see my profile?

Only people you're eligible to match with inside the app. Your profile is never searchable on Google, never indexed by search engines, and never visible to anyone who isn't signed into Gaydar.

Can Gaydar staff see my messages?

No. Your conversations are encrypted and only accessible to the two people in them. The only exception: if you report a conversation for a safety violation, our moderation team can review that specific thread to investigate.

Do you sell data to advertisers?

No. We make money from Pro subscriptions and a small number of in-app ads. Your orientation, gender identity, and HIV status are never shared with ad networks or data brokers. Ever.

What data do you collect?

Your phone number (for signup verification), your location (for proximity-based matching), the profile info you choose to share, and basic usage analytics. That's it. Read the full list in our privacy policy.

What happens when I delete my account?

Everything is permanently purged from our systems within 30 days. Profile, photos, messages, matches, vault content — all of it. We keep only a minimal record (a ticket ID and a hash of your phone number) for legal compliance so the same number can't be used to impersonate a deleted account.

Who processes your data?

We use a small number of infrastructure providers to run the app. Each processes only the minimum data required for their function. We do not share data with advertisers or data brokers.

Questions about your privacy?

Read our full privacy policy, get in touch, or join the waitlist to see these features in action.